@grandmaof4 Right? Like I understand expecting grandma to use the products you’re supplying, to use extra ointment if asked for changes, etc… to make sure she is feeding what you’ve supplied, not giving them like, water or some weird home remedy of something, etc. Accidentally dumping milk, or dumping without realizing it was a big deal to the pumping mom, and not LOGGING FEEDS into a specific app.. that’s so beyond.
I can’t imagine how hurt I would be if I wasn’t allowed to be alone in a room with my daughter or son’s future child. I would feel so belittled.
No one is entitled to baby time, even grandparents… but when grandma is so willing to come over and just spend time with mom and baby, even when it’s clear she isn’t trusted, and she still is happy enough to where she may send a PICTURE to her son in law and be happy, that hurts my heart for everyone involved. This husband is a total control freak who has warped everyone’s sense of normalcy here it seems.