@tobi80 It's time for YOU to start growing up. You are no longer a small child. You are going towards adulthood.
You need to help your mum out. She is tired. You need to put yourself in her shoes and think about her, not just see everything from your own perspective. Have some initative. You KNOW what needs to be done around the house. You know that. Stop pretending you don't.
So you look around you and you see things need doing. Floor needs a vacuum, diswasher needs stacking or unstacking, clothes need folding, bench needs wiping.....most of all? you eat something? you dont just throw rubbish or leave leftovers on table. You get up, rinse and stack it appropriately.
You arent a baby that your mother should need to clean up after. You ALL live in the house together and so you have a basic responsibilty to respect others and do you bit.
She should not have to write anything down for you. You are well old enough to think for yourself.
*** I have teenagers. I was also a teenager once! I know the drill ;-)