@billyli I would keep working, but I’m a regretful SAHM by circumstance (we moved). My kiddo loved daycare & our time with him in evenings and weekends was amazing.
The studies on daycare don’t really (from what I’ve seen) account for socio-economic status, quality of care OR parental quality of life.
My personal mental/physical health as a SAHM is no where near as good as when I worked. I got more time to myself, adult interaction, mental stimulation, etc. not to mention that I’m probably decreasing my lifetime earnings in the order of 500-600k (maybe more) by taking this time out
So tbh unless there’s a very compelling reason to stay home, I wouldn’t.