@joyful111 Must haves (for us) have been:
- baby booties: love the burt's bees ones with the snaps, use every day and they don't come off like socks
- footie PJs/"sleep and plays"
- winter car seat cover (we live in a cold climate and baby was born in fall)
- baby carrier: stretchy wraps are good for newborns, but i started using a Happy Baby carrier around 1mo and still using it at 6mo. the Beco Gemini is another good option that's more affordable
- philips agent glass bottles and size 1 nipples: we breastfeed, but had to supplement for awhile. and now we bought the straw cup conversion kit for these bottles.
- stroller that has a bassinet/pram mode (we got a "mompush" brand from amazon and an organic cotton bassinet sheet to put over the base)
- sleep sacks
- cloth diaper covers and cotton "prefolds" to use as inserts: we didn't start cloth until 3 months and i was very skeptical about it, but now at 6 months I absolutely love cloth diapers and wish we started earlier
- breast pump: we had bf issues initially and the pump was necessary to keep supply up and supplement while we worked on patching
- basic vinyl portable changing pad
- basic burp cloths
- warm fuzzy bear suit for winter walks
- organic cotton stuff toys. not necessary but just cute and babies put EVERYTHING in the mouths and I feel better about him chewing on organic cotton vs random plastics etc
skip:
- swaddles (we ended up cosleeping, and swaddling isn't safe for cosleeping)
- snuggleme lounger: literally never used this, my cats liked it tho
- changing table/stationary changing pad: never used this, we prefer to change diapers on the floor or couch or wherever, on a towel or the vinyl pad mentioned above
- mostly everything hahaha. didn't use silverettes or nipple ointment, i never leaked so didn't need pads and haakaa was useless. haven't yet used a bassinet, crib, or pack n play.