My ex has had limited visits w our sons (2.5y/o and 2 mo old). Previously he has only been allowed around them w me present. Lately he has been making more strides to be consistent and so I’ve allowed him to take our oldest for a couple hours of the day. (I have concerns about substance abuse and mental health)
He’s been asking for more time so I agreed on two days a week for him to take our oldest after daycare 4-6:30pm. He is not allowed to pick up our son from daycare bc he refuses to communicate with me and has kept him overnight without my consent.
For context: he’s only ever had our oldest for a weekend overnight alone in which he got high and drunk while he was sleeping, had random women at his house, and asked for a babysitter after one day. He lives across the country most of the year. He only ever comes to play with them nothing else.
We have a court ordered temporary agreement for him to have our oldest 8-2 on Saturdays but I’ve been trying to work w him.
Today he told me he was going to show up at the daycare and make a scene if they denied him access to our child. He’s also threatened to just show up. He’s also had a woman here over the weekend who has gotten violent w him and had done drugs w him that ultimately ended up with him in the mental hospital previously. He had previously agreed to pick up our son at 4 from me and return him at 6:30. Now he’s telling me he’s gonna show up and pick him up and all this stuff.
I told him I no longer felt comfortable with him taking our son today. Am I in the wrong?
He’s been asking for more time so I agreed on two days a week for him to take our oldest after daycare 4-6:30pm. He is not allowed to pick up our son from daycare bc he refuses to communicate with me and has kept him overnight without my consent.
For context: he’s only ever had our oldest for a weekend overnight alone in which he got high and drunk while he was sleeping, had random women at his house, and asked for a babysitter after one day. He lives across the country most of the year. He only ever comes to play with them nothing else.
We have a court ordered temporary agreement for him to have our oldest 8-2 on Saturdays but I’ve been trying to work w him.
Today he told me he was going to show up at the daycare and make a scene if they denied him access to our child. He’s also threatened to just show up. He’s also had a woman here over the weekend who has gotten violent w him and had done drugs w him that ultimately ended up with him in the mental hospital previously. He had previously agreed to pick up our son at 4 from me and return him at 6:30. Now he’s telling me he’s gonna show up and pick him up and all this stuff.
I told him I no longer felt comfortable with him taking our son today. Am I in the wrong?