Me and BD are in the middle of court where he filed for visitation (along with his mom filing for grandparent visitation) and he has mental health issues and issues with smoking weed and other drugs. As an initial agreement I said they could have 6 hours on every Saturday with our 2.5 y/o. We also have a 7 week old but I denied visitation for him. Previously all visitation was done with me present.
This past Saturday was the first official visit. They ambushed me and asked me in front of our son if they could keep him all day so he could go to his aunts basketball game. I said fine because I didn’t want to argue in front of our son.
He came back that night exhausted in a whole new outfit head to toe. The clothes I sent him in were not returned. He is very high energy and that night requested to go to bed ( which he never does) and when he went to lay down on his pillow said his head hurt. I checked the back of his head and there was a huge bump. I asked his grandma what happened and she said “nothing happened. Is this bc I bought him new clothes? Why do you hate his father so much? No accidents happened.” And his dads phone was completely off. I decided to take him to urgent care to have him evaluated since they were acting so sketchy. They sent us to the ER and because I had to story as to what happened to him it was reported to CPS. Once BDs phone turned on he called me and said he fell at a pool but refused to say anything else. I asked him many times to tell me what happened and he just kept saying “yes are you ready?” “Yes are you ready to receive” and when I would say yes he would stop answering for hours. He asked if our son was okay and would not tell me what happened. He did not reach out until the next day at 4pm asking if he was okay. We were at the ER until 3am alone.
My son had a concussion according to the doctors based on the size of the bump on the back of his head.
I want to revoke all visitation rights. There’s much more history than this. His parents constantly lie about everything. Am I overreacting???
This past Saturday was the first official visit. They ambushed me and asked me in front of our son if they could keep him all day so he could go to his aunts basketball game. I said fine because I didn’t want to argue in front of our son.
He came back that night exhausted in a whole new outfit head to toe. The clothes I sent him in were not returned. He is very high energy and that night requested to go to bed ( which he never does) and when he went to lay down on his pillow said his head hurt. I checked the back of his head and there was a huge bump. I asked his grandma what happened and she said “nothing happened. Is this bc I bought him new clothes? Why do you hate his father so much? No accidents happened.” And his dads phone was completely off. I decided to take him to urgent care to have him evaluated since they were acting so sketchy. They sent us to the ER and because I had to story as to what happened to him it was reported to CPS. Once BDs phone turned on he called me and said he fell at a pool but refused to say anything else. I asked him many times to tell me what happened and he just kept saying “yes are you ready?” “Yes are you ready to receive” and when I would say yes he would stop answering for hours. He asked if our son was okay and would not tell me what happened. He did not reach out until the next day at 4pm asking if he was okay. We were at the ER until 3am alone.
My son had a concussion according to the doctors based on the size of the bump on the back of his head.
I want to revoke all visitation rights. There’s much more history than this. His parents constantly lie about everything. Am I overreacting???
I just want my boys to be safe!!! Even if it was just an accident i don’t know why he’s acting like this!!