@jassikm This is some of the things they don’t tell you. (Learned by experience) if you want to take your child that you raised all alone out of the country you can’t if his bio don’t agree if his name is on the B.C. If something was to happen to you and you was to leave in your will that your underage child needs to go to let’s say your mom or your siblings. Nope he becomes the sole parent( unless they can prove he unfit). I agree with don’t put his name on let him earn the right to be dad.
My son bio dad name is on his B.C and because of him. My son have missed 2 trips to Jamaica and 1 to England. Just because his dead beat sp*rm donor did not want to sign for his passport stating that when the first time he leave the country he want it to be with him. He have not saw his son in 2 years and and only seen him a handful of times since he been born. Plus bio dad never been out of the state.
Don’t put his name on it. My husband of 3 years wants to adopt my son and this have been a hard process because I was told that he have to go a full year no contract for me to file to get him removed but he make sure he calls 2-3 a year.
He was never there at all. To not pay child support he work jobs under the table. He send a few dollars a few times a year birthday/ holiday. My son is 11 now and my husband been there the last 5 years and he sees him as dad and when people ask who is dad is he said my husband and even told me he wish my husband was his really dad. He do respect he bio when ever he call but he don’t make any effort to call him. On Father’s Day he give my husband gifts and don’t even think about bio. To him at 11 years old he know that my husband have been there for him and supported him, never missed a event. Just because you get someone pregnant don’t mean you a dad.
Real men step up!!!!
My son bio dad name is on his B.C and because of him. My son have missed 2 trips to Jamaica and 1 to England. Just because his dead beat sp*rm donor did not want to sign for his passport stating that when the first time he leave the country he want it to be with him. He have not saw his son in 2 years and and only seen him a handful of times since he been born. Plus bio dad never been out of the state.
Don’t put his name on it. My husband of 3 years wants to adopt my son and this have been a hard process because I was told that he have to go a full year no contract for me to file to get him removed but he make sure he calls 2-3 a year.
He was never there at all. To not pay child support he work jobs under the table. He send a few dollars a few times a year birthday/ holiday. My son is 11 now and my husband been there the last 5 years and he sees him as dad and when people ask who is dad is he said my husband and even told me he wish my husband was his really dad. He do respect he bio when ever he call but he don’t make any effort to call him. On Father’s Day he give my husband gifts and don’t even think about bio. To him at 11 years old he know that my husband have been there for him and supported him, never missed a event. Just because you get someone pregnant don’t mean you a dad.
Real men step up!!!!