@liveetah Wow im so glad i found your post! Our daughter is 2 in a couple of weeks and she still isnt walking. She wasnt prem, but she aspirated meconium at birth and had to be on oxygen for 7 weeks.
She has only started crawling, pulling to stand, and cruising furniture within the last 2 months. She sees a Neurodevelopmental Therapist (who has been AMAZING) and we have done a number of tests, all of which so far have come back clear, we are awaiting an MRI on her spine, brain, and central airway (she has a minor airway issue). The MRI was actually ordered by a Sleep Specialist she saw as she was concerned about just how far behind she is with gross motor skills (thank goodness for her).
As i mentioned, her therapist has been so amazing, she has really improved since we started seeing her. She can't see that there would be any neurological problem as she is right on track with her speech and fine motor skills. She believes it is due to low tone, for what reason? We are yet to figure that out. We think she still has a way to go before she starts walking, but her confidence is growing every day. She has a walking frame (which she still isnt sure about), and we have been referred to have her fitted for ankle splints.
Reading all of these comments has given me a lot of reassurance, so i thank you for your post! It has been such a stressful time, and i think i am very much in the same boat as you, both me and my husband agree there has to be SOMETHING causing this, we dont accept that she is simply lazy, we can see how determined she is to move and play with her sister, we just have to figure out how to get her there.
Sorry to unload on your post! That ended up being much more than i intended. I hope your little one makes some great progress in the near future, how ever that may be!