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    In case anyone needs it: this is the official permission post for parents living in places with sub-freezing weather to relax on screen time and food

    If there’s anyone who’s in the midwestern or eastern U.S., and it’s going to be dangerously cold all week, and you’re beating yourself up about creating wholesome, enriching experiences while you’re all trapped in the house: you can cut yourself some slack. It’s okay. Screens and junk food...
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    Did r/ScienceBasedParenting just shut down?

    I literally refreshed the page and it's gone? I knew they were having issues but damn.
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    Baby rash/eczema

    Hi I am in desperate need for help. My 14 month old has developed really dry eyes and dry skin. The dry skin is on his face, right foot and small tiny patches on his legs (around 4 patches in total) i live in the UK where unfortunately my gp has prescribed steroids without asking any questions...
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    Best Hygiene Products for Newborns

    FTM currently at 36 weeks and getting things ready for baby. I see that dermatologists recommend Cerave products for baby soap/shampoo, etc. Now I am seeing that it may have a bunch of potentially harmful chemicals. Also, my MIL recommended that I wash all baby clothes in Dreft and I learned...
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    Daddy sleeping in

    What do we think of this? My husband has sleep apnea and believes he needs tons of sleep. (He does wear the cpap and has for years . He also has always been a high needs sleeper). He goes to bed at 9:30pm. On weekdays he comes out of his room at 6:45am. On the weekends, he will come out of...
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    "butts aren't shaped like triangles" any toddler underwear shaped like Tiny Undies?

    I want to buy underwear for my toddlers that are shaped like Tiny Undies brand underwear instead of the v-shape of regular mass-produced underwear. Boxes vs triangles. I also buy the same for myself and there are brands that sell on amazon that make box-shaped briefs for women too. But I can't...
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    Vacation hell

    Title is maybe a little bit overkill, but it feels appropriate. We’re on a tropical vacation with a 8 month old and 2.5 year old. As well as my parents, spouses parents and a few other relatives. I thought it would be a little teensy bit of a break for us because all family members offered to...
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    Looking for alternatives to the children's dance industrial complex

    Hello! My 4 year old has expressed interest in ballet, primarily just playing pretend and reading the Angelina Ballerina books. Part of me wants to enroll her in ballet, but a bigger part of me wants no part of ~dance~. There are a few reasons for this, and they are: 1) Expense. We really...
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    I’m a few months behind on vaccines and visits and I feel embarrassed to go back to the doctor…

    I’m moderately granola. An area I struggled with is vaccines but at the end of the day, I want my children fully vaccinated. I was back and forth and now I ultimately am fully on board with getting my 9 month old vaccinated. I guess im an ex-anti-vaxer even though I never really considered...
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    ExH “needs some time off”

    This week is supposed to be the ex’s weekend to see the boys. He gets them every other weekend. Today I messaged him to confirm that he’d be here tomorrow. Nope. He’s in Columbia. At first he said it’s because he’s working. Then he started the lovebombing. When I didn’t fall for it he said...
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    Really struggling with PPA/PPD 1 week postpartum

    Hi everyone. I am a week postpartum from delivering my 2nd son. With my first, I had to deliver him 6 weeks early because of preeclampsia. It resulted in an emergency c-section and a hell of a recovery for both of us. This was almost 3 years ago and in the beginning I was really sure I didn’t...
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    [RANT] Teacher said my child (nearly 7, M) has the emotional maturity of a 2-3 year old. Fuck her

    My son is enrolled in French immersion. He's not perfect, we know there's something going on, the pediatrician says he MAY have mild ADD or some form of anxiety disorder, but nothing is clear at this point and he requires further testing and growth before they'll know what's happening. It's...
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    Bedtime issues with 3 y/o

    I know this is a classic issue and there are lots of helpful articles online about “building in choice” and routines. But what is the best approach if your kid just refuses to do anything? For instance we go upstairs and it’s time for bath so we have to take off clothes. You ask her if she...
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    Ideal baby jail setup

    Our girl is 5.5 months old and rolling all over the place and starting to try and get on her hands and knees in a crawling position. I am starting to think about our options for a playpen. Our living room is on the smaller side, right now we have a pack n play in a little nook and we set her in...
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    Am I a terrible wife for not staying up late with my husband?

    Me and my husband are on the brink of divorce. It’s rough working and having 2 small kids (3 and 4) and a partner struggling with mental health and substance abuse issues. I’m not perfect, I’m a type A with terrible anxiety but I provide for my family and keep the house and our lives running and...
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    Everyone things I'm crazy for being excited

    My son. My crazy, hyper, non verbal, lovable son, is being offered to be taught cross country track. Guys, guys, the coach saw my kid running at recess and CAME UP TO HIS TEACHER to ask if he can start now teaching my kid track! Son can't join the club until he is in 3rd grade, but the coach...
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    15 months in…. When do I sleep again?

    Our 15 month old has always had trouble staying asleep. Sure we’ll have good stretches (couple of days maybe) but typically she still wakes up 1-2 times a night and then is up at 5:30/5:45 WIDE AWAKE. When does it get better and how the f&$k do I get her to sleep longer? (Yes we have a good...
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    R.I.P. THE TABLET 2020-2020

    Thank you kids tablet, for all your sacrifices for my child's entertainment. All the bumps and bruises were worth it, just to hear you play the little baby bum intro on a car ride. You kept my child distracted when I needed to do things. You led me to my success. Thank you, you will be missed...
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    My kids (5, 7) just left for a 6-day vacation with my husband, why can't I stop crying

    I'm a working mom in Europe. [edit: new/alt account to post here] This was supposed to be a break for everyone: I've been super-stressed, burning the candle at both ends lately, and can't go abroad for work reasons. So my husband's taking the kids for a brief resort holiday in the sun. They'll...
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    My daughter (4) washed my back

    I'm not sure if it's the pregnancy hormones of long-awaited Baby #2 being newly snuggled in my Hotel Womb...but something happened last night that made me so grateful for the job I've done as a mother. To add, this girl can be spicy and sassy as the rest of 'em, but last night, was different...
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