clovispower
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I'm married to such a POS. I don't think I can do this anymore. Told him he's a 50/50 partner once he walks though the door. He said his day gets started before ours, 6.30, and he has to be out the door at 7.
We have two daughters, a 6 month old and almost 5 year old. I told him I'm up at 6:30, and I'm up 3-4 times a night nursing. He said I'm not up and about, so it doesn't count. He said it's easier to lay down in bed, nursing, 3-4 times a night for 6 months, than having to wake up at 6.30.
The girls go to bed at 8 now. His solution to not napping is to get them up earlier so that they can go to bed earlier. (Baby is up by 7, 4 year old by 8 max). So that he gets his "me" time after they're down. He kept saying that he needs rest. He electively chooses to sleep at 1pm every night.
Told him we have a fundamentally different view on my role as a SAHP. Told him I've been much happier without him (moved to the guest room this week, have not been interested in conversing with him). Then, like a psychopath he told the baby "mama is breaking up the family, two Christmases" and whatever else in a sing songy voice. Oh and an hour earlier, when I said I'm unhappy with him, he said fuck it divorce me and you'll get what you want because I'm going to off myself. Told him he's guilt tripping me with suicide. He's the worst kind of person.
Fuck it, I'm done. This man is helpless. I'm done. I just need to find a job. Those girls are such a blessing, I finally feel like my family is complete, I just need to separate from him.
Some of you probably remember me from a few days back. It's been a rollercoaster. I just wish I had a source of income to make all this easier. Would ideally love to find a weekend job. Don't know where to go from here.
We have two daughters, a 6 month old and almost 5 year old. I told him I'm up at 6:30, and I'm up 3-4 times a night nursing. He said I'm not up and about, so it doesn't count. He said it's easier to lay down in bed, nursing, 3-4 times a night for 6 months, than having to wake up at 6.30.
The girls go to bed at 8 now. His solution to not napping is to get them up earlier so that they can go to bed earlier. (Baby is up by 7, 4 year old by 8 max). So that he gets his "me" time after they're down. He kept saying that he needs rest. He electively chooses to sleep at 1pm every night.
Told him we have a fundamentally different view on my role as a SAHP. Told him I've been much happier without him (moved to the guest room this week, have not been interested in conversing with him). Then, like a psychopath he told the baby "mama is breaking up the family, two Christmases" and whatever else in a sing songy voice. Oh and an hour earlier, when I said I'm unhappy with him, he said fuck it divorce me and you'll get what you want because I'm going to off myself. Told him he's guilt tripping me with suicide. He's the worst kind of person.
Fuck it, I'm done. This man is helpless. I'm done. I just need to find a job. Those girls are such a blessing, I finally feel like my family is complete, I just need to separate from him.
Some of you probably remember me from a few days back. It's been a rollercoaster. I just wish I had a source of income to make all this easier. Would ideally love to find a weekend job. Don't know where to go from here.
