@ladyghosthunter My answer is a little twofold here. The TL;DR is yes, I think you should have an identity outside of being a mom, but that doesn’t mean you have to go to law school unless you actually want to be a lawyer, because that is too much debt to take “just in case.”
Longer version: I think if you don’t want to be a lawyer having a JD would not be beneficial. Never go to grad school if you don’t know what you’re going to do with it—the extra debt and time spent on it is NOT WORTH IT. I’m speaking as an MBA student graduating now. That said, if you want to be a lawyer, pay for law grads is high so you could work hard for a few years to pay that off. Frankly, professional degrees like MBAs and JDs are about ROI (what you’ll make after the degree) and are priced accordingly so I would do that math before you commit.
I agree with your mom that it’s important to have a life outside of your children and being a mom. I also think it’s important to have a career and your own money in case something happens with your marriage. Life happens and you don’t know what’s down the line - divorce, your spouse falls ill,etc. You don’t want to be stuck in a position where you don’t have a career to lean on to take care of your family. That doesn’t mean you have to be a lawyer if you don’t want to be though, just that you may want to have some past work experience. You might already since you have a college degree, but if you went straight from bachelors to law school, I’d maybe try a different career if you’re not super excited about law school.
Longer version: I think if you don’t want to be a lawyer having a JD would not be beneficial. Never go to grad school if you don’t know what you’re going to do with it—the extra debt and time spent on it is NOT WORTH IT. I’m speaking as an MBA student graduating now. That said, if you want to be a lawyer, pay for law grads is high so you could work hard for a few years to pay that off. Frankly, professional degrees like MBAs and JDs are about ROI (what you’ll make after the degree) and are priced accordingly so I would do that math before you commit.
I agree with your mom that it’s important to have a life outside of your children and being a mom. I also think it’s important to have a career and your own money in case something happens with your marriage. Life happens and you don’t know what’s down the line - divorce, your spouse falls ill,etc. You don’t want to be stuck in a position where you don’t have a career to lean on to take care of your family. That doesn’t mean you have to be a lawyer if you don’t want to be though, just that you may want to have some past work experience. You might already since you have a college degree, but if you went straight from bachelors to law school, I’d maybe try a different career if you’re not super excited about law school.