@heavensdaughter I didn't make a big fuss about it. I just sent out a text to my parents and stepparents and brother and let them know our pediatrician told us everyone seeing the baby needed TDAP and COVID vaccine and the flu vaccine once it's available. Everyone I texted already has COVID vaccine, so I said just check your vaccine record because you might already be fine and have TDAP, otherwise you can just get it real quick at Walgreens. No biggie at all.
The only issue I had was my mom was a bit of a diva about coordinating TDAP for my grandpa who she takes care of, so I told her no worries at all if he doesn't get it, he'll just have to wait until Thanksgiving to see babe (4 months old and will have his vaccine). I'm truly fine with whatever choice is made, but our boundaries are set. Period.
Now, my out-of-state in-laws are another story. Luckily MIL is the only remaining resistor and I'm perfectly fine with her not seeing baby if she doesn't get vaccinated because she is psycho (refuses to get the COVID vaccine or tdap or flu and SWEARS she won't hurt baby because she'd never do anything to harm the baby...
). But boundaries are boundaries and she's not crossing them. Period.