@disciple2011 Something that Dan Savage used to say, '
every relationship fails until one doesn't'. It was something like that. It's very difficult finding the right person to fit a relationship with. I dated a few people, and I was friends with this one lady. Every fiber of my being was telling me that she was different. Trouble was, she lives a few states away, so we weren't together and were just friends.
It got to a point where I only wanted to be with her, and we decided to give it a go. Yes, we have obstacles (distance), but we're making it work. She's unlike any woman I've ever dated and, after over two years, she's, my person. We connect and are authentic with each other.
Sometimes you'll find the person you're looking for where you least expect it. For me, it was on a discord server.