@lynnede It is traumatizing! Nothing dramatic at all about what you're going through. When someone discovers their partner has been having an affair, there's literally damage done to your nervous system. It's fried. You have SUCH a hard road ahead, and the one person who was supposed to navigate the hard roads with you not only put you there, but then fucking chopped you into pieces and left you to put yourself back together again before you can even start thinking about getting off that road.
Fuck that guy. What a weak piece of shit. Couldn't step up when you brought your son home and couldn't even just appreciate a partner that does everything to keep the household? Ooooooo I cannot wait for life to hit that idiot real hard.
Also... trying to accuse you of cheating first? Knowing he had all the evidence on his phone of his own indiscretions?
.... like he knows you not only ran the house hold, cared for your son, cared for him, but also got your bachelor's degree while doing all that, right? And he was still gunna treat you like you were stupid?
I'm so mad for you. How many ways can one person break your heart?