@alessandra Deja Vu! I swear I saw this exact post with this exact wording and phrasing, a few weeks ago-ish... albeit in a different subreddit.
That said, personally, I would either tell them and let them take the news however they will (can't change some people). Could be entertaining to watch their reaction(s).
Plus, think about it... Apart from some shouting, maybe, perhaps a meltdown or two, what consequences would you face from them? Like, what are they really gonna do? What
can they even do, within reason?
Or just not tell em at all, I've seen that option being mentioned.
You got this