introspectivemuse
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@nanipardhu 2 feeds a night at 6mo still seems reasonable to me.
I STed at 4mo and below was my approach to night feeds (as advised by our sleep consultant). With this approach we went from baby waking hourly and wanting to nurse back to sleep, to 3 feeds over the course of a 12 hour night, dropping to 2 then 1 then 0 by time they were 9mo.
For night feeds, we chose a feeding interval that we felt was appropriate for our baby's age and feeding schedule. In our case we chose 2.5hours. So if baby woke and cried and it had been MORE than 2.5 hours since their last feed, we went in promptly (gave it a few minutes to make sure it was a true wake and not just grousing) and fed him. If it had been less than 2.5hours we used our chosen ST method. The key is to stick with your chosen course of action. So if baby wakes at 2 hours and is still crying at 2.5hours, you do not go in and feed them - that just teaches if they cry long enough they'll get attention/fed. Truthfully this situation only happened maybe once or twice for us anyway
I STed at 4mo and below was my approach to night feeds (as advised by our sleep consultant). With this approach we went from baby waking hourly and wanting to nurse back to sleep, to 3 feeds over the course of a 12 hour night, dropping to 2 then 1 then 0 by time they were 9mo.
For night feeds, we chose a feeding interval that we felt was appropriate for our baby's age and feeding schedule. In our case we chose 2.5hours. So if baby woke and cried and it had been MORE than 2.5 hours since their last feed, we went in promptly (gave it a few minutes to make sure it was a true wake and not just grousing) and fed him. If it had been less than 2.5hours we used our chosen ST method. The key is to stick with your chosen course of action. So if baby wakes at 2 hours and is still crying at 2.5hours, you do not go in and feed them - that just teaches if they cry long enough they'll get attention/fed. Truthfully this situation only happened maybe once or twice for us anyway