First holiday alone

[birddseedd]

Hi, it’s my first holiday alone with my 7 month. I never thought we’d be here and it’s so hard not being able to be with my family due to custody battle. I couldn’t travel and somehow still miss my ex despite knowing this is what’s best. I hope everyone has a Merry Christmas!

 

[john3322]

@birddseedd Take this year’s holiday as one for yourself to relax and heal. You’ll have years of busy holidays ahead. I’m sorry you have to do this alone

 

[jnb2]

@birddseedd It’s our first Christmas alone, our first holiday alone was Halloween. My LO is 22 months. My family actually decided to go out to a local event tonight, but I stayed home because they were planning to be out late and it’s really cold. It’s been lonely. I don’t have advice but I can offer solidarity. Happy to chat if you’d like!

 

[micah_3]

@birddseedd Its better to be alone vs in a toxic environment. I hope you’re good!!! Happy to chat if you need

 

[darcylbridge]

@birddseedd I know you feel alone, but you’re not. There are lots of people who are going through the same thing or who have gone through it. My 2 yr old is with her father tonight and I’m alone for the first time on Christmas. So I get it. Sending hugs. And remember, it won’t always be like this. It will get better. That’s what I tell myself.

 

[lightup]

@birddseedd Hugs.

 

[katrina2017]

@birddseedd holidays as a single parent is hard. I felt like EVERYONE was looking at me.. never fun.

we have lots more fun now, and the kids also have great holidays with their mum.