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@sheron86 This. right. here. Your former friend, a person you thought you could trust, may use court to terrorize you and stay relevant in your life, especially if you are detaching from him and his airiness. He may try to uproot the child's routine and punish you for setting boundaries and refusing to stay in the role that he wants you to play in his life. If you could find a way to set boundaries without the courts being involved, I think it would cut out the possibility of this. But play nice, and stay surface-level....don't let him know how you really feel about the situation. This is a tough situation because it's possible that your CP is Jekyll and Hyde-esque, beneath a mask. The gray space you've felt these years could have been exactly what he wanted you to feel.
 

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