@flyboy2610 I haven’t been around this group that long, but this is the single most judgmental comment I have ever seen here. I hope OP doesn’t take it too badly.
I have no idea of your background or life style so it’s difficult even to assess it properly, but I would hope that comments like yours continue to be rare here. Being a parent is a scary proposition, there is nothing wrong in wanting to ensure you have the best start possible. Abortion or no abortion, this group exists for dads-to-be to exchange information and to support each other, not to pull people down.
OP, I feel you. I was in the same scary boat at the early stages of our pregnancy due to our ages (45M and 42F) however our results came back different. So far, all indications are that things are as normal as they could be, so we’re moving forward. I’m not sure we would be if the tests had shown anything different. I hope you’re able to talk to people, therapists, family, friends. And make the best decision you can with the information you have at your disposal. I wish you and your partner the best.
I have no idea of your background or life style so it’s difficult even to assess it properly, but I would hope that comments like yours continue to be rare here. Being a parent is a scary proposition, there is nothing wrong in wanting to ensure you have the best start possible. Abortion or no abortion, this group exists for dads-to-be to exchange information and to support each other, not to pull people down.
OP, I feel you. I was in the same scary boat at the early stages of our pregnancy due to our ages (45M and 42F) however our results came back different. So far, all indications are that things are as normal as they could be, so we’re moving forward. I’m not sure we would be if the tests had shown anything different. I hope you’re able to talk to people, therapists, family, friends. And make the best decision you can with the information you have at your disposal. I wish you and your partner the best.
