so yes, it’s a perennial problem. it’s always assumed that parent a will handle the kids on days off and yea, hi, i’m parent a.
i used to be a sahm and i think he grew accustomed to that convenience and thinks it stands today. i communicated on friday i had a very busy day and the kids had off - he responded that his day was light so it’s no problem.
i was actually very surprised then when he walked out on time this am, hence the grimace. the kids are older but they require transport galore, which i can’t provide when i’m in meetings and on calls, so i really thought he’d be at home parts of the day.
i totally think i deserve fawning if this is how it’s going to be! there’s no fawning!!