newborns

  1. T

    Baby won’t sleep in his cot

    Feel like I’m slightly screaming into the void here but my 10 week old baby won’t sleep in his cot at night and I’m starting to go stir crazy. He does fairly decent chunks of sleep overnight (two of about 3/4 hours each) but only if cosleeping. When he was younger this was easier (I mean I...
  2. F

    Have you taken part in any Baby Friendly training?

    I would be so grateful if anyone with experience of Baby Friendly Initiative training could fill in this short survey as part of my PhD. Just follow this survey link https://livpsych.eu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_eM22o3WMnt1EO6G Many thanks!
  3. R

    Diarrhea in 4 1/2 months old

    My LO has been having loose stools since Thursday. Sometimes mucusy and with a tinge of blood. We’ve done a fecalysis with occult blood test which tested positive, but her stool sample tested negative for any parasite or bacteria. My pediatrician is stumped. She’s exclusively breastfed and has...
  4. W

    FTM w/ a 4WO that won't sleep for longer than 2 hr stretches

    I have no idea what changed but it began a few days ago... my LO began refusing to sleep for anything longer than 2 hour stretches, and began waking up every hr and a half or so. If we're lucky she'll sleep for 2hrs maybe even 3. She used to sleep so well but as soon as that 4 weeks hit she's...
  5. B

    Spitting up Famotidine

    Hi everyone. My baby (6 weeks old, boy, exclusively breastfed) was diagnosed with GER four days ago after several weeks of really bad spitting up. The doc thinks it’s reflux so put him on Famotidine. We aren’t sure if it has been helping though bc each time we try to get the baby to take the...
  6. S

    What I've learned as a new parent (Part IV)

    • You'll feel a little sting of sadness when your baby grows out of adorable clothes that you gushed over during pregnancy. When my baby grew out of my favorite newborn sleeper, teary-eyed, I went online and purchased it in the next two sizes up. • The other parent will eventually catch you...
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    Looking for books covering tons of topics, avg newborn temperatures, when and how long to swaddle, tips and tricks

    Looking for reading material on tons of random topics for a newborn like the title says. E.g. My mom used to go straight to the ER when temps went up, and my dad would suggest waiting it out. When u get to the Dr. they’d say wait it out tripple digits aren’t unheard of. Anyways looking for...
  8. S

    How long are your 2-3 month olds sleeping at night?

    I’ve been sleeping in the spare room and doing the night feeds because my husband operates heavy machinery at a sawmill and I’d rather him not be tired and make a careless/sleepy mistake at work. I truly don’t mind it, he picks up the slack when he’s home and does most of the nights during the...
  9. V

    At what age did you allow others to kiss your baby?

    My baby is 3 months old and it’s cold and flu season so we have a strict NO KISS policy. No cheeks, no hands, no head. Only mom & dad can kiss babe. Our parents keep talking about how they’re waiting for the day they can kiss her. Personally I’d rather them never kiss her but that would break...
  10. D

    Baby hasn’t pooped for 7 days!

    My babe has been solely breastfed & he’s 7 weeks old. We found out two weeks ago he has a dairy allergy and I’ve been dairy free since. We went to his pediatrician two days ago who wasn’t worried about it but told me to give him juice & that I could try a baby glycerin suppository if he hasn’t...
  11. T

    One month old ?hates napping

    I think my newborn has FOMO? He just does not seem to nap. Wondering if it’s just his personality or if I’m doing something wrong? Typical flow of the day is he wakes for the day around 6:30-7:00. As soon as he wakes up, he wants to eat. BF and then he’s awake. No nap. Wants to eat again...
  12. W

    My baby sleeps okay but I can’t??

    Hello all, FTD to a 4 week old LO. First, let me say I’ve learned so much from this subreddit. Incredibly helpful and supportive! Our baby has tons of feeding problems that we’re working on fixing but he actually sleeps pretty well. The issue is that over the last couple days, I haven’t been...
  13. J

    I feel like I'm exhausted and out of my depth here

    FTM, with nine-day old son. It was an emergency C-section, as my bp shot up to 200/100. I was exactly 37 weeks along. My husband travelled 18 hours to where we were, and managed to arrive within the first 24 hours of life. I had to stay longer in the maternity ward due to my bp. Hubby and I...
  14. T

    How do you make sure you don't sleep through your newborn crying?

    My husband is going back to work on Tuesday and I'm (ftm) worried that I'll sleep through my baby (3wks) crying/feeding times. Since birth, my husband has been doing "night shifts" as he's a night owl and I've been doing "day shifts" since I'm an morning person and he also wanted me to be able...
  15. T

    7 Weeks - When Can I Let Him Sleep For Longer?

    My 7 week old is doing great. He was 8 lbs 6 oz when he was born and he’s currently 10 lbs 9 oz (26th percentile). He’s drinking 3-3.5 oz every 3-4 hours (bottle feeding exclusively breast milk). So he’s essentially feeding 6-7 times a day and probably getting between 18-24 oz a day. He doesn’t...
  16. S

    Does anybody here feels like divorcing their husband while they sleep straight all night while u take care of a newborn who refused to sleep at night?

    Yes. My husband sleeps all night while im still wide awake carrying my newborn. He came back to work and I on the other hand is still on maternity leave but i still find this unfair. Is it too much to ask for an uninterrupted sleep? Coz i am 3 weeks pp via c sec and i havent slept well since the...
  17. B

    Feeling like a bit of a failure

    First time mom and I have no idea what I'm doing. I can't understand the different types of cries, the longest stretch of sleep overnight he's gotten is 2.5 hours, I misinterpret his cues all the time. Currently up at 3am with him because I thought he was hungry, but he keeps smiling and...
  18. P

    7 Weeks PP and ready for the 2nd

    Am I the only one? This is my first and all through pregnancy I was sooo ready for it to be over but now I miss feeling my LO kick in my belly so much. The first few weeks were definitely challenging but now we’re in a pretty good place and every time I think about getting pregnant again I get...
  19. T

    Newborn is 7 weeks and has slept maybe a combined 3 hours without being held since birth

    I'm physically and emotionally numb at this point. I thought my 1st kid was bad when she'd only lay down for 45 minutes at a time, startle and then have to be soothed and put back down for an entire night (for roughly months 2-4). My wife and I did shifts then and made it until sleep training...
  20. N

    No help with baby from father

    My baby is 3 months almost 4. I’m am so tired and mentally drained. It’s very hard and I think what makes it hard is having no help from the father. I’m so still with him in a relationship but I’m starting to think I’m better off single since I already feel that way.except I wouldn’t have the...
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