@wrex I’m fully aware of all aspects of abuse.
If you’re bold enough, even transferring money from one checking account to another without informing the other party can be considered financial abuse. This was told to me by a lawyer that had a client that got a DV order against him for transferring money for a child’s sporting activity. Family court is pretty wild. Also, most of what you just describe actually can be documented.![Man shrugging: light skin tone :man_shrugging_tone1: 🤷🏻♂️](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f937-1f3fb-2642.png)
And… I’m not on a high horse, I’ve just been in the trenches. And my situation worked out extremely well, so I’m certainly not bitter. I said and stand by that I have zero empathy for people that make false claims or ANY kind of abuse.
That being said, no one should be in an abusive relationship, or if they are being abused stay in one. There’s shelters, free legal aid etc…they have options other than to stay with the abuser.
I’m done discussing this with you though, have a great life.
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If you’re bold enough, even transferring money from one checking account to another without informing the other party can be considered financial abuse. This was told to me by a lawyer that had a client that got a DV order against him for transferring money for a child’s sporting activity. Family court is pretty wild. Also, most of what you just describe actually can be documented.
![Man shrugging: light skin tone :man_shrugging_tone1: 🤷🏻♂️](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/1f937-1f3fb-2642.png)
And… I’m not on a high horse, I’ve just been in the trenches. And my situation worked out extremely well, so I’m certainly not bitter. I said and stand by that I have zero empathy for people that make false claims or ANY kind of abuse.
That being said, no one should be in an abusive relationship, or if they are being abused stay in one. There’s shelters, free legal aid etc…they have options other than to stay with the abuser.
I’m done discussing this with you though, have a great life.
![Victory hand :v: ✌️](https://cdn.jsdelivr.net/joypixels/assets/8.0/png/unicode/64/270c.png)