@debbie_s Here are my tips:
Keep a sippy cup of water by the bed
Wear a sports bra or tight-fitting shirt or turtleneck so that your boobs are on lockdown
Read a book about weaning before bed
Pick a phrase like “Mama’s boobies are asleep right now” or “now we only nurse when the sun is out” and use that same phrase over and over again. Eventually, when you say that, your LO will know what it means and will settle more easily
Pick set times and stick with them. We started with no nursing between bedtime and 2:00am, then moved it forward one hour every week or so or when we felt we could, until we got to 6:00am
My husband can’t help at night because of his medication, so I had to do night weaning by myself for the most part. If you can, find a way to nap during the day because it is ROUGH. The night wakings tend to get a lot longer and sometimes more frequent for awhile. Prepare ahead of time and don’t start if you don’t feel like you can stick to it for as long as it takes. I personally am waiting to night wean my toddler because she is teething molars and I already feel like death warmed over. I can’t imagine not having The Boob as my secret weapon until she is all done with this nonsense.