@acmb0101 Just anecdotal, but I have a friend who while not trying to get pregnant exclusively had unprotected sex with her husband for their almost 10 year marriage. It was to the point that she was a little worried something was wrong and maybe they couldn't have kids, but the minute they decided to start trying they got pregnant no problem. It only takes one time, but that one time doesn't just magically happen either ykno ?
@acmb0101 Shit, a fair chunk of my anxiety stems from knowing my child is mine. Poor thing's got a family history of depression, asbergers, ADHD and bipolar on both sides. I'm just hoping it's all the heavy metals and second hand smoke everyone born before 1990 was exposed to, and there isn't actually a genetic link.