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its the 3 of us: 32f (me), 36f (A), and 42f (B). A and B have 2 daughters each, both the exact same ages.
A and B hangout a lot (frequently without me, because i work during the day + theyre on mat leave/stay at home mothering at the moment). i am closer to B because our husbands work together but i really enjoy A too.
A invited me over in a text outside of our group chat. i asked her “should i bring wine? i can bring B with me!” she says “oh, its just us tonight - [her husband] needed a break from the chaos of kids, so we just wanted to take advantage of our childless friends
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i responded with “haha, i get it
see you tonight”… but it stings that im the token childless friend. childless… that word hurts.
to be fair, i havent shared my ttc story with anyone other than family (especially in recent months because i had a miscarriage at 8/9 weeks). so its nothing wrong with what she said… technically… ugh. i dont know. having friends with babies kind of sucks.
A and B hangout a lot (frequently without me, because i work during the day + theyre on mat leave/stay at home mothering at the moment). i am closer to B because our husbands work together but i really enjoy A too.
A invited me over in a text outside of our group chat. i asked her “should i bring wine? i can bring B with me!” she says “oh, its just us tonight - [her husband] needed a break from the chaos of kids, so we just wanted to take advantage of our childless friends
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i responded with “haha, i get it
to be fair, i havent shared my ttc story with anyone other than family (especially in recent months because i had a miscarriage at 8/9 weeks). so its nothing wrong with what she said… technically… ugh. i dont know. having friends with babies kind of sucks.