@atodestroxia I am completely overwhelmed by the response i got here and can't properly answer you but I wanted to thank you for your comment and providing links to reasources. We will look into them tonight.
@aegisheart Are you able to work with a psychologist (not a psychiatrist)? A good psychologist will work with parents to help answer all those questions based on experience and evidence-based, developmentally-appropriate recommendations (as opposed to a psychiatrist, who deal moreso with medications, and your ped, who will have less experience in this area). The psychologist should also be able to advise you around assessment and may also have the names of some qualified assessors jn your community
