neuroclusterbrain
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@perfectlove25 I can’t speak to the breastfeeding/pumping part as we formula fed happily by choice from pretty much the beginning. BUT shifts worked tremendously for us. Having that 6 hours of uninterrupted sleep every night was a sanity saver and really really helped me recover from my c-section.
I would go to bed in our master bedroom around 8pm and my husband would hang out with LO in the livingroom until around 10pm. Then he would take her upstairs to her room (we are lucky to have room for a full sized bed in her room as well as her crib). He would stay with her until 3am. I would tap him out and he would go sleep until 9am (while he was on leave with me).
When it was my shift I tried to sleep when she slept. It’s hard at first because you feel like you should stay awake and stare at them sleeping all night but as long as they’re in a crib/basinet, by themselves, with nothing else except a fitted sheet and swaddle/sleepsack, they are safe and it’s ok for you to sleep. If I was up feeding her I had a show I was binging on my phone and would put one AirPod in so that the sounds wouldn’t make her think it’s day time and time to be awake! Or I scrolled Reddit haha.
I would go to bed in our master bedroom around 8pm and my husband would hang out with LO in the livingroom until around 10pm. Then he would take her upstairs to her room (we are lucky to have room for a full sized bed in her room as well as her crib). He would stay with her until 3am. I would tap him out and he would go sleep until 9am (while he was on leave with me).
When it was my shift I tried to sleep when she slept. It’s hard at first because you feel like you should stay awake and stare at them sleeping all night but as long as they’re in a crib/basinet, by themselves, with nothing else except a fitted sheet and swaddle/sleepsack, they are safe and it’s ok for you to sleep. If I was up feeding her I had a show I was binging on my phone and would put one AirPod in so that the sounds wouldn’t make her think it’s day time and time to be awake! Or I scrolled Reddit haha.