@brandonhi I think about what my MIL has been through in her life, I would lay down in the mud to keep her feet dry. She was married with children before she could have a bank account. (Her hubby was a great man they loved each other and had a good life). She had to grow up fast to care for her own sick mother before she got married. She raised her siblings.
She qualified as a HCA, a bookkeeper. She just made life work, whatever she was handed.
And now in her golden years she is still helping family.
I love how she talks to the kids.
"You can play nicely and stay in the living room, or if you throw that lego at your sister you will be in your room where you can't hurt anyone. Could happen!"
I love how she tells them "could happen!"
They are infinitely better behaved for her. Omg.