rainflower
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The pattern for the last few months has been our 20 month old starts off in their bed 7.30 and comes into ours between 1 and 3am. She's fed and the sleeps on. It's exhausting for my partner at the best of times but it's seen working for us on the whole - the child is happy, is easily soothed, we have no tantrums and we're both largely able to rest and sleep through.
But the last couple of nights, our child hasn't stopped feeding all night from 11 and it's too much for my partner it's coincided with trying to be a bit more boundaries about feeding in the day - like not feeding before meal times which has caused some proper resistance from our child which is v difficult for us.
Are there any tips for transitioning to more boundaries approaches to feeding in day time and managing this night time continuous feed?
But the last couple of nights, our child hasn't stopped feeding all night from 11 and it's too much for my partner it's coincided with trying to be a bit more boundaries about feeding in the day - like not feeding before meal times which has caused some proper resistance from our child which is v difficult for us.
Are there any tips for transitioning to more boundaries approaches to feeding in day time and managing this night time continuous feed?