@historyismypassion Let me offer another pov. With the whole wealth of information available. One should be open to feedback and help with tactics.
It's ok to examine whatever we may be doing and see if there is a better way to do it.
Example: i have a 2 year old at this point and my best friends have a 2.5 year old, so we have spend a lot of time helping and taking to reach other about challenges that come with each milestones.
While my wife and i do our best to learn, read books educate ourself on the latest research, my friends do things just because that's how they were raised and don't accept any feedback from anyone or do any self education.
Their kid has anger management problems, she bites, slaps and punches the mom and others all the time. The parents solution is to put the kid in time out till she says that she is sorry. In one incident, the kid was being put in time out for up to two hrs where the parents whent in ever 15 to check in and to get the kid to say "sorry" for hitting. The kid was sobbing that she didn't want to be left alone but the parents kept putting the her in timeout claiming that "they know their kid the best" and that she was being stubborn and not saying sorry on purpose..... My wife's and my jaw dropped at this disciplining tactic.
We tried to share research to show that time outs is an outdated tactic that don't work especially on kids that young. We were shut down really quick with a " we know what we are doing".
I guess the point is yes we all know our kids the best. But let's have open discussions and be open to feedback as we all have blindspots and we all have opportunity to learn and get better.