r/regretfulparents is a subreddit filled with very honest & empathetic people, many who love their kids but did not realize the true weight of their actions. You do not need to be a parent to join, but keep your comments to yourself unless you're expressing empathy/support for the parent. This is a very transparent space accepting of all feelings these parents have. As it should be.
This is important to read not only to appreciate the time we have solo/with a partner, but also the magnitude of choosing the right partner.
A large percentage of these posts are people regretful of their choice in partner or having kids entirely as it forced the relationship to the brink. Some are literally only there until the kid is 18. I have had close friends deal with the fallout of such parentage. It's heartbreaking for everyone.
So please. I know time feels like it's slipping away, but the choice to have a child is the most life-changing event of your life. & who you choose to procreate with (especially with roe v wade overturned), could make or break your future.
Be selective. Your deal breaker are important. Being a parent opens every wound you both have. Therapy is so fucking important. Fix yourselves before you bleed on your kiddos.
And educate yourself on just what you're doing. Prepare. Theres no such thing as too much.
This is important to read not only to appreciate the time we have solo/with a partner, but also the magnitude of choosing the right partner.
A large percentage of these posts are people regretful of their choice in partner or having kids entirely as it forced the relationship to the brink. Some are literally only there until the kid is 18. I have had close friends deal with the fallout of such parentage. It's heartbreaking for everyone.
So please. I know time feels like it's slipping away, but the choice to have a child is the most life-changing event of your life. & who you choose to procreate with (especially with roe v wade overturned), could make or break your future.
Be selective. Your deal breaker are important. Being a parent opens every wound you both have. Therapy is so fucking important. Fix yourselves before you bleed on your kiddos.
And educate yourself on just what you're doing. Prepare. Theres no such thing as too much.