My doctor told me I wasn’t able to get pregnant at the age of 24

[resurrectionist]

When I was young I dreamed to get pregnant at 24 and give birth at the age of 25. Now it was all dead. Mixed emotions. I don’t know what to feel. Cuz…

My doctor told me I wasn’t able to get pregnant at the age of 24.. devastated..

After checking my ultrasound results, the doctor was shocked that I have a similar ovaries with an old 60yrs old woman, or maybe worst. And AMH was way too low.

Checked to 2 ob gyn already, 1 told me to do IVF but it is not my option for now. And 2nd doctor told me that even IVF wouldn’t do it and we will just waste time and money.

So yeah. Take care of your body ladies! Or else you’ll regret it

 

[trail45]

@resurrectionist Don’t think is over yet. Miracles can happen.

 

[resurrectionist]

@trail45 Yes. Thank you

 

[rainrider]

@resurrectionist Honey there is still time miracles happen

Have you gotten a second opinion

 

[resurrectionist]

@rainrider Thank you

 

[rainrider]

@resurrectionist YW I try to help and give hope to people. I know a miracle will happen.

 

[resurrectionist]

@rainrider

 

[craiga]

@resurrectionist I'm so sorry.. I know how hard it can be to be told your dreams and wishes for the future aren't possible. It's okay to be angry/sad/disappointed. Whether you end up with a miracle, adoption, or just enjoying your life without children, I wish you an endlessly happy life. It's okay to grieve the loss of the future you planned, but know it can still be a beautiful life.

 

[resurrectionist]

@craiga Thank you

 

[adonys]

@resurrectionist I know every situation is different but I never thought I would get pregnant after years and I have two kids. My best friend got diagnosed with precancerous cells and a lot of medical issues and has two kids. Some times God has other plans

 

[resurrectionist]

@adonys Also don’t know why do we have to experience it..

 

[adonys]

@resurrectionist If you are talking about experiencing pain, I don’t have an answer. We lost our first and it was the most painful thing I have ever been through. She sent me her little brother so I know she is still watching over us

 

[resurrectionist]

@adonys We always asks, why is he doing this? What have I done to deserve this? But the only answer is to wait for the future

 

[adonys]

@resurrectionist We can always ask why and never receive an answer. We will always have the “what if” but honestly I’m at peace. I went on a self journey and gave up on ever having another kid. Now I can’t imagine life without my son. My best friend thought she wouldn’t have a second and now has her little miracle. I’ll never understand why shit happens the way it does.

 

[adonys]

@resurrectionist I’ve learned that some times shit just happens like it’s supposed to, it gets better

 

[bibleloverbill]

@resurrectionist Miracle still can happen, don't give up hope

What happened to your body tho? Birth control?

 

[resurrectionist]

@bibleloverbill I took birth control 2yrs ago for 1 box lang

 

[craigeandrewhughes]

@resurrectionist Im pretty sure that you couldn’t have done anything different. Some women are just born with a lesser egg reserve than others. Please dont blame yourself or anyone else for that sake.

You could think about using an egg donor. I know others who have had their kids with a donor eventhough they reached menopause

 

[hillegas]

@resurrectionist AMH is not a great indicator of if you can conceive without intervention. Every month our follicles compete to produce one egg to ovulate (maybe two or three in twins or triplets scenario) a higher AMH means more follicles will compete to be that one egg but one egg is all you need to conceive when you are trying to conceive without IVF. In the case of IVF, the goal is to turn all those follicles into eggs through meds so hopefully you can create more genetically normal embryos so a low AMH can make IVF difficult. But outside of IVF, a low AMH isn’t a great indicator of whether or not you can conceive without intervention. The only way to know if you can get pregnant is to try.

https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2808552#:~:text=Although%20it%20is%20associated%20with,woman's%20egg%20count%20is%20declining.

https://www.acog.org/clinical/clini...n-hormone-in-women-not-seeking-fertility-care

 

[resurrectionist]

@hillegas My ob let me take glutathione, folic acid, vitamin e, and coq 10.. will these help me increase my egg follicle?