@gregj222 Usually with an app you can't add user flair, you'll need to visit the desktop version of the site (either on mobile or an actual desktop) in order to be able to access the flair option.
@ha6enti I took it as not asking about gender identity or sexual orientation at all, but circumventing those things to get at whether you at least had the option of trying the old-fashioned way or only through donors, ART, etc. from the start. A gay couple where one person is trans would answer the same as a straight cis couple.