I can’t

@simpleinchrist1 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗 I send you lots and lots of hugs.
I understand how difficult it can be, I have a friend who also can't get a break, something always happens, but the difference is that she doesn't care, she has decided that she will be happy no matter what, that's her priority. She still cries and everything else, but she knows that she can enjoy her life as it is.

I'm here if you need someone to talk to 🤗. And my advice is that you try to be grateful for everything you have, that you focus on the little positive things that happen and let go of the negativity. You can't reach the solution while fighting the problem, you need to become the solution. Keep pushing, because a wonderful life is waiting for you, your prayers and hopes are being answered, just let go of your current resistance and fighting of everything that's wrong and use your energy to focus on the positive and start achieving what you desire.
 
@quivermum Respectfully, it’s pretty toxic to advise someone to just “let go of the negativity” when they are responsible for a young child and are struggling to keep the basics going. Yes, it’s great if someone can still be grateful. But it does t fix anything, and it can feel pretty minimizing to tell someone to focus on the positive when they’re suffering.
 
@blake2030 It's not toxic at all, what's toxic is clinging to the negativity. From the original post, it's clear that she has put so much attention on everything that is wrong that she feels powerless, but she can find solutions simply by having more clarity in her life.

What do you say to someone who is always daydreaming? What do you say to someone who is always out with their friends and doesn't study? You pull them back into balance, and that can only be achieved by letting go of the negativity.
 
@blake2030 I know what toxic positivity is, and if you believe this is toxic positivity is because you don't understand positivity at all. Or do you prefer if I told her to stop crying and get things done? Or that she's right and her life will continue to be miserable? Where do you find the toxicity in telling her to try to have happy moments among all her suffering so she can improve her life and mental health?
 
@simpleinchrist1 Well I'm a single dad raisin to little beautiful girls so I know the struggle my girls are 12 and 16 now so I'm over the hard part but if u ever need clothes help or just someone to talk to feel free to call me
.4052614379
 
@simpleinchrist1 I'm so sorry you're having a hard time and I totally understand... sounds like spiritual warfare to me. One thing to do is talk to God, he listens when nobody else does. We don't know why he allows hard times in our lives, but I can guarantee it is never too break you. He's using the trials to get your attention and bring you closer to him. Read the Bible and talk to him like you would a close friend. Ask him what he's trying to teach you and how you can surrender. It does get better. You have something to do here, you've just got to hang in there long enough to make it to the other side. God said he will never leave you nor forsake you, you aren't alone, even though it may feel like it. 🙏🏾🙏🏾
 
@simpleinchrist1 Sorry for what you’re going thru but I read a lot of pointing fingers at everyone else who are NOT responsible for your happiness. Not trying to be insensitive but maybe some tough love is what might help. Maybe not and I sincerely hope you pull out of this.

But stop waiting on others to do anything for you. There’s a time when you need to just step up and take responsibility for your situation yourself. Good luck to yiu
 
@simpleinchrist1 Try to be positive, remember if you had someone who just moaned and complained and whined why me all the time would you want to hang with them?

This is not a dig OP just realise that people don't want to hear about your problems constantly.

I know it seems tough but it will work itself out

Look back on your life and think of times you've won, even little things like had a shower, quality time etc.. and be grateful that at least you have your health

Good luck op and hang in there
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top