@monique77 Honestly, you’re doing such an amazing job! I feel like you’re doing a lot more than most so your husband is really lucky. I’m the sahp and I’m with my LO 24/7 especially since I breastfeed. I do all the laundry, grocery shopping, bottle cleaning, feeding and most of the cooking. We switch off with cooking but he usually does all the dishes.
My husband probably gets to spend 2-3 hours a night after work with our LO and he’s in charge of the nightly routine esp if baby wakes up in the middle of the night, which doesn’t happen often.
It is pretty exhausting being a SAHP especially if baby won’t nap or is on the move. It’s hard to do anything during the day. I sometimes forget to eat bc I’m so busy running after the kiddo. After a few months we decided to get a nanny that helps out 10 hours a week and that has made things so much better for me!
We also switch off on weekends depending on whether we have plans or not. So he’ll get a Saturday to do whatever and I’ll go do my thing on Sunday while he’s on baby duty.
You guys will find a solution but just know that you’re both doing an amazing job, but more importantly YOU are doing an amazing job supporting him in any way you can! Kudos to you mama!