linktogunner
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I know it shouldn't bother me, but it does. My daughter is about 16 months old and is constantly misgendered, even when she's wearing a bunch of pink and bows. I understand that people want to be open and gender neutralized and such and I have absolutely no problem with that, if that is THEIR choice. But my daughter gets called a boy often and it drives me crazy. During a 20 minute grocery store trip today she got called a boy THREE times. She doesn't have much hair yet and maybe that's why they just assume, but she can have a shirt on that literally says "little sister" and people still call her a boy. She doesn't like bows on her head and I just don't feel like it's worth it to pierce her ears this young. I look at her and just think she's to dang pretty to be a boy, but it happens almost every time we leave the house.
Ok..rant over. I'm just really butthurt over this.
Edit: some.. ok MOST of you guys seemed to take this in a way it was not intended for. I, personally, get annoyed when my daughter is called a boy because my efforts of dressing her in more of a feminine outfit are completely ignored. It's more of a feminine or masculin issue, not about genitals. Genitalia wasn't even on my mind when I thought about this and I find it kinda disgusting that yall went straight to that. Smh... like yall think I really just want her fuckin coochie out there for the world to know about. GiRlS hAvE vAgInAs AnD bOyS hAvE pEnIsEs. Obviously, we already know that. All I wanted to do was come here to vent because my efforts of putting cute GIRL outfits together are shrugged off and people frequently call her a boy because or her lack or hair. YOU may not give two shits, but I do. I also got hate for even bringing up the pierced ear thing but I stated that I DONT think it's worth. I came here vent and most of yall are kinda being a bunch of dicks about it and completely disregarding my feelings about it. No, my toddler isn't bothered, she doesn't even know. But I care, and this comment section is not the business.
Ok..rant over. I'm just really butthurt over this.
Edit: some.. ok MOST of you guys seemed to take this in a way it was not intended for. I, personally, get annoyed when my daughter is called a boy because my efforts of dressing her in more of a feminine outfit are completely ignored. It's more of a feminine or masculin issue, not about genitals. Genitalia wasn't even on my mind when I thought about this and I find it kinda disgusting that yall went straight to that. Smh... like yall think I really just want her fuckin coochie out there for the world to know about. GiRlS hAvE vAgInAs AnD bOyS hAvE pEnIsEs. Obviously, we already know that. All I wanted to do was come here to vent because my efforts of putting cute GIRL outfits together are shrugged off and people frequently call her a boy because or her lack or hair. YOU may not give two shits, but I do. I also got hate for even bringing up the pierced ear thing but I stated that I DONT think it's worth. I came here vent and most of yall are kinda being a bunch of dicks about it and completely disregarding my feelings about it. No, my toddler isn't bothered, she doesn't even know. But I care, and this comment section is not the business.