@igors We are sort of in-between. We are in a small but liberal Midwestern town. Many folks have moved on in the sense that a majority (although not a huge one) of eligible folks are vaccinated, we still have okay (although greatly pared down) PCR testing access, most people at one time were pretty cautious, etc. But few wear masks at this time and they are no longer required except for at health care facilities.
Our kids, both under 5, have been back at daycare for a year and a half. That's the only place they go. That's where all our household risk is. My older kid (happily and with no issues) continues to wear a mask for most of the day, although it's no longer required. My younger kid is too young to mask. My husband and I wear masks anytime we are in public, period, so we don't eat out. I don't take them to the grocery store, the library, etc, because I can tell from what data there are that transmission is high right now.
I'm eager to get them vaccinated because every day I know their odds of exposure are high and I can't do anything about it. I can't quit, my husband can't quit, we can't wfh with them. Each time they have had an exposure before, we have to keep them home for 10 days. If one were to get it, they'd both have to stay home 10 days plus 10 more days for the exposure, unless one gets it from the other in which case however long that transmission would take plus 10 more days. Even if I had zero concern about whether they'd get severely ill or not, which scientifically is comparable to the flu (for which I happily get them vaccinated), I can't afford the time off any longer.
Once they are vaccinated it takes some pressure off that the whole society around me has moved on. I'll know my kids are protected from the small but real risk of a bad outcome, just like with the flu vaccines they get each year. If they get exposed at daycare I can monitor and test them without losing two weeks of work time with no notice. If they get ill, we can keep them home while they are ill and contagious and send them back when they are better, just like any other infectious disease in a daycare setting. And therefore it won't be so concerning and disruptive to our entire work and personal life that we feel we have to avoid simple stuff like going to a store or taking them to a museum. That's why I'm so excited.