waiting for baby

I feel like I've been waiting to try for forever. I've always wanted kids, so over time, my ideas of what exactly constituted "ready" to have kids have changed. I would be really interested to hear how everyone else's "We will start trying when ____" statements have changed! Before I met my SO...

Does anyone ever feel grief about waiting to try? I think sometimes waiting to try can appear as a choice (which sometimes it is and sometimes it isn’t), which causes others to misunderstand the grief associated. Like, there’s so much out there about infertility and grieving that. And there...

Hey WTT! I know there’s been some discussion on what happens at a pre-conception appointment, so I wanted to give an update to mine this morning! My timeline: I’ll finish up my last week of active pills of orthotricyclen HBC this week, and will use barrier methods and track my cycles until we’re...

Hello all! I Posted in a different subreddit and they led me here. I (26 F) didn’t realize how incredibly sad it would make me feel. Im married & we both want kids but are waiting for the right circumstances to do so. We are more than an hr drive from our families and know we will need their...