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    @wren84 For me when I say keep an eye on each other like I said it's because I'm downstairs while they are upstairs or outside playing in the yard while I do dishes with the toddler. my oldest will let me know if one of them is climbing something or doing something they shouldn't or somebody is...
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    Breast feeding 3rd with 3 u 3

    @number3 We turned it into feeding and story time so the older ones looked forward to it. I would read a story then my 3-year-old would turn the pages and read a story for the little one making it up as they go. Collect easy reach snacks for the day and have a snack together while I breastfed. I...
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    @peninnah I appreciate that. my kids are so awesome that being the mother they deserve is definitely Out Of Reach, but I'm going to keep trying. When you grew up in a dysfunctional parenting family and you know they have good Hearts so they did the best they could it certainly makes you question...
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    @peninnah I think I'm okay on the extreme end I worry about the little things hopefully that's enough to keep it age appropriate. I cook almost every meal myself but I let the kids help with mixing and teach them recipes and things the oldest is really into cooking. She gets into a mood and...
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    Everyone thinks I’m crazy. Am I?

    @tisanewseason Not crazy and if you're one and done this special time will be over so quickly anyway if it works for you do it and keep the bond strong.
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    @johnsdani It sounds like we have a lot in common it makes me feel good that you are so confident thank you
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    Gender patterns?

    @daniel1986 G(fathers first, my step) GBGG my son has used a few birthday wishes on a brother
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    How does your larger than average family deal with the fine line between teaching your individual child responsibilities/ family bond and making sure you're not overburdened them with parental responsibility? How do you make sure you have a healthy balance between budgeting money for...
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    Does your working partner help overnight?

    @daisy83 I do all baby wake ups and all the big kid wake up through the night. It works for us because I worry about my husband falling off a roof if he's too sleepy where if I'm too sleepy I fall asleep in the kids school work. I sleep in a little later in the morning then he does but overall I...
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    Spacing between #3 and #4?

    @bob999 Two of my four are spaced basically the same we conceived shortly after his first birthday. I did miss out on giving him plenty of baby time he did have more jealousy and didn't like the baby where the other babies he absolutely loved because they didn't take away his baby time. However...
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