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@butterfly123 There's a lot wrong here mom. First, there's monitoring your kids activities, typically if you suspect problems or see a performance issue elsewhere..and intrusion. You've crossed that line. Being 14 by itself is not a justification for being this involved in her private...

@godblessed777 They need to go to school daily. Don't allow them to bend the rules, its a bad precedent.

@aog17 if anything, it could be 'unfair' to you, you're past infants and kid stuff generally. I like the idea of really processing your experience here as well as your expectations.

@aog17 Therapy! having a child is a major life changer, so before you do this, i would really explore why, and what changed for you. They aren't returnable you know, and regret is a hard thing to work into parenting.

@gracesophia11 meds?

@logann I would bet the adults didn't say or do anything bc that was the reason you, as a 15 year old needed a 25 year old in your life in the first place.

@lunalovesjesus Where would she like to have sex then? It seems like a mixed message.

@jaxson i get my sources (and education) from unbiased sources, and current enlightened thought is that a child with a fever who is in discomfort and/or cannot sleep would benefit from meds which alleviate the fever.. That fever is a natural response to infection, making the body less...

@cloveerforever did she actually say this?

@jaxson Doc here. of course i give meds! If only for comfort, a high fever and associated symptoms are really uncomfortable. i also believe the earth is not flat, fwiw.

@cloveerforever wait. 'your expectations of me making 25% more that we dont need is unreasonable. it causes a lot of stress, not only b/c of the demand, but the lack of understanding, which i deal with by drinking more. I need you to stop this and also quit threatening me, its not good for us...

@cloveerforever you might not be taking crazy pills now, but you might have when you still had more easily exercised options but didn't You might not be married, but having a child sure complicates this. i would have a really straight up convo about expectations and needs..yours, too..and try...

@lpapolczy ask her how she thinks that all sounds to the regular folk and maybe encourage her to look a bit mor into it.

@jime Tell her that unless she gets a tutor you will quit. What he needs is above your pay grade, and besides, neither of us really believe it's an either/or situation here but a control struggle in their family.

@patdog122482 It would seem to me that the loss of your mom just a year ago and his g/f moving in would be enough upheaval here so he'd at least be distracted from whatever it is that has him so anxious about your space. I would talk with him about this and ask him why he's so anxious and maybe...

@boanerges1989 Can you pay for a second opinion? it's rightly terrifying when parents hear unexpected things/confirmation from a doc or other authority, even if they're accurate, without any context. Saying "Gross delay" is scary, and then to add 'wait and see' is both poor bedside manner and...

@boanerges1989 where is this? Gross motor delay is indeed a dx. That you then say it isn't is confusing, how'd the doc determine this? A delay isn't necessarily indicative of something permanent, the issue is if it is so or if it is just the typical variation in development. Sounds like...