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@monk64 Thank you. No, you are definitely right. Try and keep it about court stuff. And yeah, it is hard. Thank you again.

@brokenbonds The shelter I'm staying at will help me with that. I think i need to pass quarantine first? But they have lots of resources here to help me. They said already that they will walk me through what to expect and that they will serve him.

@brokenbonds Thank you very much. It really really helps to hear you say that. It's very not easy, but there is already an extremely small part of that Is relived that I left.

@mdjuelrana Thank you so much. I am so grateful for this community.

@josephjnapoleon Thank you very much. It's definitely hard, but you are also amazing and strong. Thank you.

@katrina2017 My daughter is being so great right now. I know it won't last, and she will be upset that we aren't with daddy right now, but I think it is for the best. I think so at least. It's not so much that I'm still in love with him, but we were very, very codependent, and im so used to...

@katruth Thank you so much. This was extremely hard. I still feel in a daze and kinda just, in a fog.

@jamiemellien23 My sister wanted me to watch that! I've heard extremely good things. I'll definitely need to check it out I'm pretty sure I don't want to go back. I'm so tired of being afraid

@bee_brian Thank you. That honestly helps to hear. I'm hoping I can look back on this in a few years and be proud of the person I will hopefully become. Right now though, I just feel rudderless and anxious. It doesn't feel real yet. I'm definitely all over the place emotionally. I keep...

@rpwolfgang Oh man. I've definitely never thought about bravery that way before . Thank you

@afterthought I'm very, very lucky to have my own private room. It's a very, very nice shelter. And the beds are extremely comfortable. So that helps. I feel very lucky and glad that there are places like this that exist. I'm feeling a bit less upset about everything. All of my friends and...

@frankyb Awesome!!!! I'm (very slowly) working my way thru TNG right now. Well, not this literal second, but like, in general. Have you seen Lower Decks yet?? If you haven't, you definitely need to check it out.

@charl Thank you. I'm definitely gonna join.

@blu_sky I have definitely read the first few novels! Right now, I'm really loving my books a wee bit trashier. I usually skip the steamy stuff, but I love the building of new relationships and the world building. I poorly crochet!! I'm hoping to get some yarn and a hook soon. I'm dyslexic...

@staxed Thank you very much. I actually don't know how to quilt, but I've always wanted to learn. I find them so beautiful. And I've just always enjoyed sewing. Thank you again

@blu_sky Right now I've been in a huge phase of reading romance novels set in the 1800s. Lol!! I actually don't have any hobbies anymore, which is part of the reason why I left. I felt so hollow inside . My dream hobby though would be sewing or quilting. My much more realistic hobby though is...

@blu_sky I did take a step back, and stopped interacting with him. I know im not responsible for his emotions, but I feel EXTREMELY conditioned to look out for him, and to make sure he is happy, no matter what it might cost me. I know that's not healthy, but that's where I am right now ...

@drjjhj Thank you. It just stings a bit, because he never did any parenting or care of our daughter and now he wants her?? I feel like it's more him just threatening me, trying to hurt me, because I know I hurt him. Man. I am exhausted.

@frankyb That's honestly how I'm trying to look at it. I don't need to do dishes or cook for at least a week! Hopefully I can keep my kid from going nuts! But I'm trying to look at it as respite. Thank you

@drjjhj Right now I just feel exhausted and sad. Its funny what you say about the cycle of abuse because my mom was in a very abusive relationship, and I always hated that she never left. And that when my dad left my mom, that my mom was so upset by it. Honesty , her not leaving made it harder...