@badone Oh, i was a fencesitter too! I waited until 35 to have my only. Pregnancy was medically normal but i HATED every second of it.
We went to Hawaii during my second trimester and I was miserable the entire time. Seriously...it was basically a waste of money, at least from my...
@sam77 This feels like gaslighting you into believing that his controlling behavior is to your daughter's benefit. Using a traumatic event you experienced as a young child as proof seems incredibly manipulative.
@de_maria Omg, I feel this in my soul!! I just want to throw something simple together for my son, then eat a sandwich or something. I'm so sick of the meal planning, grocery shopping, meal prep, cooking, then cleaning after
@tj00110
This is what I did and I'm so grateful. When I was still pregnant I was clear that I expected to split nights 50/50 once I got my milk supply established. Then breastfeeding didn't work out so we rolled right into taking shifts - I did 9pm-2am while he slept, then he did 2am-7am while...
@akdamar I think I'm lucky in that my husband really enjoys baby stuff and takes over without me having to ask. He'd be a SAHD in a heartbeat, but his earning potential is substantially higher than mine lol.
Anyway, for us it's 50/50 when we're both home. And on Sundays he plays "default...
@frknfly I'm guessing he meant he'd be willing to have more kids IF he was with someone who wanted them so badly they were willing take on 90% of the child related tasks
@springwillow I would honestly give the PT a chance, after you've clarified reasoning with the nurse practitioner.
My son has this weird thing going on with his left foot. It points outwards (out-toeing) and is significantly more narrow than his right foot. We got some xrays done and the Dr...
@mattb2jp This is so encouraging. I'm almost starting to feel like this is just my life now - constant hip and pelvic pain, with bits of sciatica sprinkled in.
@jayfrost123 I have a 4 month old and I can't even imagine...i didn't even have a c section lol. I just can't imagine not being 100% for him because I'm dealing with nausea and all the other first trimester bullshit
@snlmommy Preach!!! It doesn't help that ingredients are so outrageously expensive. A lot of the fancy complicated meals I used to make just aren't realistic anymore, both because of time and cost 😔
@bellaaa "Man, I'm so stressed with work! It's the busy season and I've been putting in so much overtime, I'm completely overwhelmed. Please remind me it will get better soon?"
"YOU SHOULD GET A SECOND JOB."