@kurret My baby isn't here yet, so take everything I'm saying with a grain of salt, but I've spent a LOT of time thinking about this. Lol. It was soo overwhelming at first, but the best thing to get past my analysis paralysis was to jump in and order!! This is what we're doing...
We are kind of on a budget and after looking at more expensive Charlie Banana covers at BBB, I decided to explore Alva's. I watched a few YT review videos and ordered a handful (8 pockets, 1 wet bag - $60) directly from their website. Although there are some really good deals for packs on Amazon right now, I ordered direct because I wanted to pick specific prints and I love that they give you options for the insert. You can totally omit, or upgrade to 3 layer bamboo, or 4 or 5 layer bamboo blend from the standard microfiber. (I picked 3 layer because it's 100% bamboo, whereas the 4 and 5 are microfiber on the inside layers.)
They came in 9 days and I'm happy with the quality, especially considering they're literally a fraction of the price of most other brands. The one complaint I've seen about Alva is that the seams come undone, but mine all seem really strong! I probably won't machine dry them unless I have to though, just to give them the best shot at longevity.
I also jumped on the LPO factory sale that ends today, and ordered enough to hit free shipping ($80 - ordered yesterday, haven't received them yet but everyone seems to love LPO so I wanted to have a "higher quality" brand in there for comparison), I got 7 pockets and they come with 2 bamboo inserts each.
Now my stash is 15 diapers and 22 bamboo inserts for ~$140 USD and I'm feeling pretty dang good about it! I will probably wait to see if any other brands run black friday sales, and if not order the rest from Alva.
There is such conflicting advice about certain diapers "not working for your baby," but the consensus I'm choosing to believe is that the stuffing and inserts are where it really matters.
I think we will end up with 30+/- one size diapers, they fit up to ~35 lbs and try really hard to potty train her before needing to size up. We haven't gotten a diaper pail yet, but probably 2 pail liners and 2 wet bags for out and about. I'm imagining this will be enough for about 2 days between laundry... Maybe I'm mistaken, if anyone is more experienced and wants to chime in with corrections or additional advice, please do!!