glorfindel8
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So here it goes, I'll keep this short and to the point, answering any questions you may have about my situation.
A little about myself. I am 21 y/o male currently studying geography minor in G.I.S. and have 2 more years of school to complete. Been dating this beautiful and amazing girl for 6-7 months now. Found out she was pregnant 2 months ago and I told her my honest truth. I was not ready to be a father, neither of us were, and that since we had found out early(4 weeks) that we consider taking the pill and getting an abortion.
Fast forward to present day. She decided she could not go through with that, however her parents are going to support her. Problem is, I don't have that level of support. My parents have asked me to leave the house and move to Vancouver for my education. They are helping me finish school but they no longer want me staying at home, for fear that I will be distracted with her and the baby and won't finish my school, which I can see happening.
I made the decision to come here and finish school not because I wanted to run away, but because I wanted to be a father that would be present in the future and financial stable. The industry is good for G.I.S. workers and job prospect is very high. I had the choice to stay with her but I am scared that this would ruin things fast similar to how moving in too quick ruins relationships and make things worse.
I was in a catch 22, and I decided to go through with my parents offer and finish my degree in another country. I'll be coming back for delivery, hoping to see a baby that can motivate me to finish earlier, but I honestly don't know If I made a good decision. I feel as though this will be good in the long run, as I will be able to support myself and this baby in the future, but I do feel as though I am missing out on some great times.
I know that I fucked up, but I'm trying to make the best out of this shitty situation. I tried being as careful as I could be, but even 1 slip up is all you need to create a baby. Help me with your advice and please be sincere. I am in no way trying to be a bad father, I am only trying to do the best in a very shitty situation.
A little about myself. I am 21 y/o male currently studying geography minor in G.I.S. and have 2 more years of school to complete. Been dating this beautiful and amazing girl for 6-7 months now. Found out she was pregnant 2 months ago and I told her my honest truth. I was not ready to be a father, neither of us were, and that since we had found out early(4 weeks) that we consider taking the pill and getting an abortion.
Fast forward to present day. She decided she could not go through with that, however her parents are going to support her. Problem is, I don't have that level of support. My parents have asked me to leave the house and move to Vancouver for my education. They are helping me finish school but they no longer want me staying at home, for fear that I will be distracted with her and the baby and won't finish my school, which I can see happening.
I made the decision to come here and finish school not because I wanted to run away, but because I wanted to be a father that would be present in the future and financial stable. The industry is good for G.I.S. workers and job prospect is very high. I had the choice to stay with her but I am scared that this would ruin things fast similar to how moving in too quick ruins relationships and make things worse.
I was in a catch 22, and I decided to go through with my parents offer and finish my degree in another country. I'll be coming back for delivery, hoping to see a baby that can motivate me to finish earlier, but I honestly don't know If I made a good decision. I feel as though this will be good in the long run, as I will be able to support myself and this baby in the future, but I do feel as though I am missing out on some great times.
I know that I fucked up, but I'm trying to make the best out of this shitty situation. I tried being as careful as I could be, but even 1 slip up is all you need to create a baby. Help me with your advice and please be sincere. I am in no way trying to be a bad father, I am only trying to do the best in a very shitty situation.