drawingangel2
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Sorry I feel like I’m going to explode and this is sub makes me feel like I have a community.
My husbands attitude toward me last night was such a slap in the face and I’m having a hard time talking myself down.
He’s been working 14 hr days most of this week and yesterday he informed me he would be working late again. I sent him a nice text thanking him for working really hard and that our family appreciates him. He got home around 9 pm and I didn’t hear his car pull in the driveway and our security camera was inside so I didn’t get an alert. He came into the house very pissy which I thought was due to his long day. He smelled like weed and I made a comment on it and he snapped at me saying why I didn’t come out to the garage to smoke with him? I was like uhhh I literally didn’t know you were home? I explained I didn’t hear his car pull in and I guess he just didn’t believe me? Ok whatever.
I had made salmon for dinner (at 6pm) and wrapped his plate up and put it in the fridge which INFURIATED him. Apparently I was supposed to leave it out. I told him you can’t leave fish out for hours- you’ll get sick. He didn’t want to hear that. So I did what any good wife would do and got a pan out to heat it up. I asked if he wanted butter or oil and he says in a snarky tone “forget it I’m not hungry anymore”. I knew he was so I offered to make him a sandwhich. His body language is extremely pissy and he just keep glaring not at me but around the room. I told him multiple times I would make him food and he kept refusing. Finally we head off to bed and normally he would take a shower (he works construction) and he flops onto our WHITE bed, dirty. I wasn’t going to press the issue so I get into bed and touch his arm and say goodnight. Again his body language is extremely hostile and after about 15 mins he goes “so I guess I’m not getting a blow job”…..
I was SEEEEEEETHING but nicely said I wasn’t feeling good (he knows I’ve had a sore throat- both of our kids are sick) and I’m on my period. He scoffs and rolls over. Whatever, good enough.
Lucky for me both of our kids were up up night coughing and uncomfortable so I was up from 12:30-4am. Just as I am getting some sleep my husband wakes up at 5:30 and stomps around the room and aggressively shuts every door which wakes me up.
I’m so fucking tired and annoyed at his behavior. I’m so fucking tired of being made to feel like I’m doing something wrong. I normally text him good morning but I’m not doing it today after the way he acted. He calls me just now saying how “his needs weren’t met last night”. He could clearly hear I’m not doing well and asks what’s wrong so I tell him how my night went and how I’m not arguing with him about his temper tantrum last night. He hung up on me saying “yep now I’m the bad guy”
UMMMMMM YEAH YOU ARE?!
Ugh. Fuck me.
My husbands attitude toward me last night was such a slap in the face and I’m having a hard time talking myself down.
He’s been working 14 hr days most of this week and yesterday he informed me he would be working late again. I sent him a nice text thanking him for working really hard and that our family appreciates him. He got home around 9 pm and I didn’t hear his car pull in the driveway and our security camera was inside so I didn’t get an alert. He came into the house very pissy which I thought was due to his long day. He smelled like weed and I made a comment on it and he snapped at me saying why I didn’t come out to the garage to smoke with him? I was like uhhh I literally didn’t know you were home? I explained I didn’t hear his car pull in and I guess he just didn’t believe me? Ok whatever.
I had made salmon for dinner (at 6pm) and wrapped his plate up and put it in the fridge which INFURIATED him. Apparently I was supposed to leave it out. I told him you can’t leave fish out for hours- you’ll get sick. He didn’t want to hear that. So I did what any good wife would do and got a pan out to heat it up. I asked if he wanted butter or oil and he says in a snarky tone “forget it I’m not hungry anymore”. I knew he was so I offered to make him a sandwhich. His body language is extremely pissy and he just keep glaring not at me but around the room. I told him multiple times I would make him food and he kept refusing. Finally we head off to bed and normally he would take a shower (he works construction) and he flops onto our WHITE bed, dirty. I wasn’t going to press the issue so I get into bed and touch his arm and say goodnight. Again his body language is extremely hostile and after about 15 mins he goes “so I guess I’m not getting a blow job”…..
I was SEEEEEEETHING but nicely said I wasn’t feeling good (he knows I’ve had a sore throat- both of our kids are sick) and I’m on my period. He scoffs and rolls over. Whatever, good enough.
Lucky for me both of our kids were up up night coughing and uncomfortable so I was up from 12:30-4am. Just as I am getting some sleep my husband wakes up at 5:30 and stomps around the room and aggressively shuts every door which wakes me up.
I’m so fucking tired and annoyed at his behavior. I’m so fucking tired of being made to feel like I’m doing something wrong. I normally text him good morning but I’m not doing it today after the way he acted. He calls me just now saying how “his needs weren’t met last night”. He could clearly hear I’m not doing well and asks what’s wrong so I tell him how my night went and how I’m not arguing with him about his temper tantrum last night. He hung up on me saying “yep now I’m the bad guy”
UMMMMMM YEAH YOU ARE?!
Ugh. Fuck me.
When you love someone you don’t treat them like that.