asiaadogma
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I have a friend who is early 30’s f (I’ll call her A) who has partial custody of her niece 15f (I’ll call her N.) A is a very wonderful person, and has had partial custody of her 4 nieces/nephews for a few years now, and involved for their whole lives because they have a complicated home life. N is the type of teen to act out, skip school, has an 18 year old boyfriend who is trouble and A does not approve of, but she reluctantly allows N to spend time with him (they go to the same high school.) A has always told N that when she feels she is ready to start having sex, let her know and she will get her on BC, no judgment. Well A got a phone call from the mom of N’s best friend, saying her daughter had confided in her that N was telling her friends that she had been having sex and her period was late. A was pissed N hadn’t told her, and immediately got her a few pregnancy tests and sent her in the bathroom to take them. Both tests were positive. A was very upset, of course, and made an appointment for N with her doctor to confirm she was pregnant. The appointment was 2 days after she had the positive tests, N still hadn’t started a period, so the doctor did a urine and a blood test to check for pregnancy and both came back negative, N was NOT pregnant. I was just wondering how likely it is to throw 2 false positive pregnancy tests back to back like this. My suspicion is that N somehow faked the tests to get attention. Maybe she bought false pregnancy test solution (available on Amazon) and hid it in the bathroom, or something. All I have said to A is that I know having a false positive test is rare, I have not told her of my suspicions the test was faked. I’m not sure it’s my place to put suspicion in her mind when she is doing her best to raise N.
Edit to clarify: I do not intend to accuse N of anything, or even mention my suspicion to A, at all. A often comes to me to vent her frustration when N acts out, so my view of N is probably skewed more toward that.
As someone who regularly takes pregnancy tests to make sure I am not pregnant, I would be totally freaking out if I had even one let alone two positive pregnancy tests (for medical reasons it would be very dangerous for me if I got pregnant). So I was just wondering how likely it is to happen, when what I’ve heard is that false negatives are common, but false positives are very rare, so two false positives seemed like lottery winning type odds.
Edit to clarify: I do not intend to accuse N of anything, or even mention my suspicion to A, at all. A often comes to me to vent her frustration when N acts out, so my view of N is probably skewed more toward that.
As someone who regularly takes pregnancy tests to make sure I am not pregnant, I would be totally freaking out if I had even one let alone two positive pregnancy tests (for medical reasons it would be very dangerous for me if I got pregnant). So I was just wondering how likely it is to happen, when what I’ve heard is that false negatives are common, but false positives are very rare, so two false positives seemed like lottery winning type odds.