Her dad wants to meet her after 6 years

[kberrios]

My daughter is 6 she has never met her dad in-person I encourage her to call and text him and that's the only way she knows him...today on the phone he told her he was gonna come see her real soon and she got nervous and is making herself not feel good she's so nervous she can't use the bathroom for #2 she came out of the bathroom just crying her eyes out saying I can't get anything out and mom I just want you I just want to be by you..what do I do

P.S now the father is sending broken hearts to her in text messages.

 

[chosenone274]

@kberrios I wish he would let her make the decision when she is ready to meet him! That is so much for a 6 year old, he is a stranger to her! Maybe work up to meeting her, sounds like he needs to earn her trust! This sounds stressful, glad she has you to lean on! Good luck on this!
The Broken heart texts is manipulating, he sounds immature! Doesn’t see the bigger picture from her perspective!

 

[kberrios]

@chosenone274 I totally agree with you on everything you said!! It should be on her time...and he does need to grow up even tho he's about 50.