@melista I feel this. I’ve been placed on bed rest for a few days with baby #2 and my husband has stepped up a lot with our two year old- I’m avoiding any kind of praise because he’s literally doing everything I always do by myself when he travels for work. I of course show appreciation but I am trying not to make a big deal of it even though I was tempted to. For example, he took my daughter to run errands (at my request) which is something he’s only done maybe once or twice since she’s been born. When he got home, I almost poured on a ton of praise but instead I was like “thanks for going to the store, I needed that so much. ” Meanwhile I take our two year old constantly.
I’m hoping he now recognizes just how challenging it is for me to wrangle out two year old while pregnant. I am learning to have higher expectations when it comes to both of us parenting.
I’m hoping he now recognizes just how challenging it is for me to wrangle out two year old while pregnant. I am learning to have higher expectations when it comes to both of us parenting.