We’ve been cosleeping with our daughter her whole life on and off she has phases where she wants her big girl twin bed. Now that she’s getting older there’s less space even in the new king bed for all of us. She’s usually in the middle. I wear a tee shirt and pants or shorts to bed. My husband wears a tee shirt and boxers. I’m starting to feel a little uncomfortable with the boxers because she pointed it out. And he usually sleeps on his left side shoulder facing the wall. What if he turns over and is aroused in his sleep? It’s only happened once since having a kid.
He stayed sleeping and I was awake. Kid was sleeping and I heard him pulling on himself during his sleep for maybe 10 seconds. The kid didn’t wake up, I know he was sleeping because I tried to wake him up and couldn’t. I hate bringing it up- I brought it up like 10 years ago when we 1st got married and he dismissed it. It happened maybe couple times a years. I’m worried about trauma for the kid if she sees something. What if I just say “she can’t see that”… he has ED issues so it’s a touchy subject.
He stayed sleeping and I was awake. Kid was sleeping and I heard him pulling on himself during his sleep for maybe 10 seconds. The kid didn’t wake up, I know he was sleeping because I tried to wake him up and couldn’t. I hate bringing it up- I brought it up like 10 years ago when we 1st got married and he dismissed it. It happened maybe couple times a years. I’m worried about trauma for the kid if she sees something. What if I just say “she can’t see that”… he has ED issues so it’s a touchy subject.