@nomalanga I am a solo mom of 2 boys (11 & 5). And I think what society deems "manly" is actually toxic masculinity.
I am just trying to raise kind, compassionate, and thoughtful young men who understand consent and how to communicate in healthy ways. This is what the world needs. My oldest is passionate about soccer. He is learning how to be a team player and how to be a leader. He has a male coach, but honestly a female coach would be teaching him the exact same things. I've taught both from a young age to believe in themselves and be confident in who they are and their abilities. I've taught them never to give up.
My boys have male role models in their lives, yes, but the qualities that a young man needs doesn't have to come from a specific gender.
Life feels hard and no parent really knows what they're doing. Believe in your abilities and support your little guy and he will be just fine.
I am just trying to raise kind, compassionate, and thoughtful young men who understand consent and how to communicate in healthy ways. This is what the world needs. My oldest is passionate about soccer. He is learning how to be a team player and how to be a leader. He has a male coach, but honestly a female coach would be teaching him the exact same things. I've taught both from a young age to believe in themselves and be confident in who they are and their abilities. I've taught them never to give up.
My boys have male role models in their lives, yes, but the qualities that a young man needs doesn't have to come from a specific gender.
Life feels hard and no parent really knows what they're doing. Believe in your abilities and support your little guy and he will be just fine.